BDSM: dominance and decency
It bothers me a lot when I see people acting like claiming a "Dominant" label means they're entitled to order around anyone they guess/know to be submissive. It tells me:
1. you're not safe: you're showing disregard for consent. You're not THEIR Dom unless they say so.
2. you're a shit Dom. If you understood dominance, you wouldn't have to be so heavy handed about advertising it.
Submission isn't something you can demand, it's something you need to *inspire*
I've been a one-game-gamer for a really long time now, ever since beginning to play Guild Wars 2. Seeing the early access release of Hades by Supergiant Games totally plunged me back into full blown gamer mode, and I think I haven't enjoyed a new game this much since the release of Bastion.
Do yourself a favor and check it out!
oh shit thats right i said im defederating from mastodon.cloud tomorrow
please check to see if mastodon.cloud people are among your followers or people you talk to and talk them into switching!
mastodon.cloud was bought by a corporation that does not seem to have any clear motive to not use it as a way to collect data, so we'd rather not let that happen
when a white person says that they're "color blind" in response to discussion about racism, they think that they're saying "i am a tolerant person."
however, what they're actually saying is "i can't see racism, so i won't acknowledge it", which is a really messed up way to look at the world
closing our eyes and putting our heads in the sand doesn't make something go away. racism is here to stay until it is acknowledged, explicitly called out by name, and strongly addressed in every community.
ניהול עצמי בתווותים? 🍓 (Tooot.im internal)
@ThatWallflower I'm sorta like that with femme-inclined non-binary people, and I think being a trans woman has a lot to do with that. It's like - my gender is "definitely not a boy", and I'm mostly attracted to other people who are like this, too.
because on some level i am sorta bi in terms of finding people from all over the gender spectrum attractive, but i find myself thinking actually really i only really wanna date other trans women?
i dunno. sexuality is weird
Trans, queer, kinky, poly, anarchist, ex-med student. She/They promouns
מסטודון היא רשת חברתית חופשית, מבוססת תוכנה חופשית ("קוד פתוח"). כאלטרנטיבה בלתי ריכוזית לפלטפרומות המסחריות, מסטודון מאפשרת להמנע מהסיכונים הנלווים להפקדת התקשורת שלך בידי חברה יחידה. שמת את מבטחך בשרת אחד — לא משנה במי בחרת, תמיד אפשר לדבר עם כל שאר המשתמשים. לכל מי שרוצה יש את האפשרות להקים שרת מסטודון עצמאי, ולהשתתף ברשת החברתית באופן חלק.